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Becoming Professional; Carier, Family, Self-Fulfilment

Menjadi profesional pastinya dambaan banyak orang. Semua orang berlomba-lomba untuk menjadi yang terbaik di bidangnya masing-masing. Ada banyak cara yang kemudian dilakukan mereka untuk kemudian dijadikan bagian dari pembuktian jati diri.

Idealnya, konsep itu gak salah-salah banget. justru, untuk menjadi ahli pada bidangnya diperlukan kerja keras dan konsistensi melaksanakan aktifitas kerja seperti yang diperlukan bidangnya tersebut. Ambil kata, seorang steve jobs pun habis-habisan kendalkan kontrol diri dan fokus hidupnya pada bidang yang menarik perhatiannya tersebut. Sukses? Tentu. Tapi jangan salah, selalu ada harga yang harus dibayar untuk setiap kesuksesan.

Tidak mudah menapak kesuksesan. Kerja keras, fokus tidak henti tidak bisa jadi jaminan terpenuhinya kehidupan pribadi yang propr untuk masing-masing dari kita. Masalah, seringkali muncul terutama pada pribadi-pribadi yang berbeda fokus dan kepentingan. Kalau berdiri masing-masing, pastinya gak akan timbul konflik. Tapi itulah dinamika hidup. Kita gak mungkin atur / dapatkan pola hidup yang totally sesuai dengan kebutuhan kita. Kita punya tanggung jawab lain yang juga sama-sama perlu dicarikan pola yang tepat untuk mengaturkannya. Tidak bisa hanya berdiam diri dan duduk menunggu orang lain yang bekerja untuk tanggung jawab anda. Itu sebabnya hidup tidak hanya untuk karir dan kehidupan finansial. Dua aspek itu, hanya satu bagian dari lingkup peran yang sama-sama harus dipertanggung-jawabkan dihadapan banyak orang. Itu juga bagian dari aktualisasi komitmen kita pada kehidupan.

Seperti yang ada juga dalam Al-Quran, Sesungguhnya Allah tidak suka yang berlebih-lebihan. Atur aja ritme dan tempo kegiatan kita. Bantu juga orang sekitar kita untuk berbagi peran dengan proper. Tujuannya? Supaya kita semua bisa sama-sama saling menjaga fokus dan konsentrasi pada karir pribadi dan pemenuhan aktualisasi diri. Kerjasama dengan konsep saling berbagi ini, tujuannya tidak lain adalah menjaga konsistensi sikap kerja kita justru pada saat kita mencapai puncak-puncak karir nanti. Pasti, tidak ada kan yang ingin mendapati salah satu anggota keluarga terjebak situasi kehidupan yang tidak menyenangkan,kan...? Jadi, mulai deh dari sekarang..

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