Becoming parent is trully a work hard to do.Instead,the utmost chalengging event in life ever after. Can't just quit whenever you feel in deeply sarrow, can not even said 'no' for every difficulties that arised, not even can say: I'd quit! for every bad things happens on regard... :"(
these couple of month, I'd ve been in a highest turbulance session. As a psychologits, I can't even understand how to gain a learning-commitment from Arfan Maulana - the eldest one.In every his school-exam, he'd always got 'the awfully' remars for the teachers... trully dissapointed one...
Can't said that those mark affected me a lot, mean he'd can only feel that those are fine to him. He's not even feel that 'something' need to change otherwise those will impacting his future..instead of doing that, he barely juts stick onto his computer and start his game n movies... those are trully makes me heart-broken...
I can't say I did'nt do anything on that... I've talk, discussed, and ask him politely for him to start make everythings on track again... He's not stupid - though - he can easily undesrtand what his teachers said.
He's just not get involved into his study... :((
what can I do next...? talk to his father not effective either... he just can't have his concentration separated in between work and his son..
so, looks to me that this time I can only ask GOD to help me out. Looks like it's time for me to lean just to Allah, Ask his mercy and fruitfull for him help Arfan gaining back his concentration...
trully says no to : COMPUTER!!!!!! erghhh!!!!!
these couple of month, I'd ve been in a highest turbulance session. As a psychologits, I can't even understand how to gain a learning-commitment from Arfan Maulana - the eldest one.In every his school-exam, he'd always got 'the awfully' remars for the teachers... trully dissapointed one...
Can't said that those mark affected me a lot, mean he'd can only feel that those are fine to him. He's not even feel that 'something' need to change otherwise those will impacting his future..instead of doing that, he barely juts stick onto his computer and start his game n movies... those are trully makes me heart-broken...
I can't say I did'nt do anything on that... I've talk, discussed, and ask him politely for him to start make everythings on track again... He's not stupid - though - he can easily undesrtand what his teachers said.
He's just not get involved into his study... :((
what can I do next...? talk to his father not effective either... he just can't have his concentration separated in between work and his son..
so, looks to me that this time I can only ask GOD to help me out. Looks like it's time for me to lean just to Allah, Ask his mercy and fruitfull for him help Arfan gaining back his concentration...
trully says no to : COMPUTER!!!!!! erghhh!!!!!
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